6 Adorable Ways to Ask Your Bridesmaids

It’s all in the asking.  And asking your besties to stand with is a great time to show them how special they are to you.  It’s a way to thank them for being there in the lead up to the event (something which, let’s be honest, is not always an easy task), and of course, on the big day itself.

Face-to-face is an amazing way to make the ask. Pop the question in a surprise way over a group dinner, pair it with a Champagne brunch or even during a girl’s weekend trip, if you can swing it. Make the asking itself the highlight and memory, and the rest will all fall into place.

Here are six adorable ways to ask your bridesmaids to be in your bridal party.

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Box It Up

An incredible way to take your maids down memory lane with you, and let them in on the future memories you will build together. Things to include might be old photobooth photos of you or notes you have written one another.  Add some fun with dress photos or hints at your theme or color palette. Photo: Bethany at Rinse Repeat

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Spoil Them

Another take on the box is a luxury gift full of little indulgences like a quality candle, designer lipstick, bath soak or other special treats. The key is the color co-ordination that makes it all look so pretty, and the card of course! We love this version with bold black and white and Tiffany blue accent from Sam at The Frosted Petticoat. Gorgeous. Photo: The Frosted Petticoat

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A Just-For-Her Keepsake

Combining a gorgeous bespoke calligraphy ask with pretty packaging and monogrammed Kate Spade memento was the winning combination for Vickie at Adventures in Fashion. Fresh, modern and yet something that will remind her for years of that special moment in your friendship. Photo: Adventures in Fashion / Calligraphy: Justine Ma

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A Secret Reveal

Wrap it up in a cute, rustic roll that reveals the question ask she unwinds it. It’s simple, but oh-so-cute. Photo: Choosing You

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Edible Ask

Sugar cookies were the sweetest way to ask for this bride, who had Jaclyn’s Cookies create custom nibbles for her big ask. The icing color and daisies even incorporated the wedding palette and theme. Some other shape ideas could include flowers, hearts, dresses, rings or shoes. Photo: Jaclyn’s Cookies

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Miniaturize the Big Question!

These mini pinatas are to die for. Festive, fun and super cute. How can she NOT say yes? Photo: Emily Vaca at Sugar & Gold, Inc.

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Wrap It Up

Create some custom bottle labels for each lady and then wrap up a bottle of their favorite libation to pop the question for you. It’ll have those ladies celebrating before the party begins! There are many options available, but we love these chic ones from Label With Love. Photo: Label With Love

BONUS: Don’t forget about the flowergirls…

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This thoughtful bride included her four flower girls in the asking by gifting them books and cards, complete with cute sketches and the names of of each girl. Ador.a.BLE! Photos: Melanie Duerkopp. See more of this real wedding featured on PreOwnedWeddingDresses!

Need more inspiration? See 8 more ways to ask your bridesmaid to be in your wedding party. 

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Groom’s Crew: Great Ways to Ask Groomsmen to the Wedding Party

Asking the gents to be a part of the wedding party is a great excuse for the groom to get involved. Here are some ideas to get the one-time wingmen to accompany the groom down the aisle on one of the most important days of his life.

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Fill out the bar with a bottle of something good and gift it with these printable chalkboard labels. We suggest botanical bitters for the perfect cocktail or a bottle of his favorite scotch.

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Punny men will like this polite request the groom must ask. A crafty project for the groom-to-be to take on including a flask, cake pops and more. Instructions at Elizabeth Doodah.

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“POP” the question with gourmet popcorn perfect for that amazing home theatre set-up he has and a include copy of a classic groomsman comedy, like The Hangover.

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Cigars are a popular gift, and not only are these a stylish way to present them to the groomsmen, it’s a pretty simple DIY project, too. Photo + Design: Corinne Alexandra

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Another cigar-centric gift, this DIY project is a great one for the guys, including a list of the tasks expected of a groomsman and details on the wedding day. Instructions and project designed by Saffron Avenue. Photos: Photographs By Jenna Leigh

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Ask in a casual way, with beers around the BBQ. Add these custom labels (self adhesive!) and the bottle will do the talking for you. (Also available for Fireball, tequila and more.)

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Black tie, cigar and bourbon…what more do you need to pop the question? Learn more about this simple DIY project from The Blissful Brunette.

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These are actually FBI-inspired wedding invitations, but these “secret files” would make great groomsmen request cards with a gift.

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Creative, Cute Ways to Ask Your Girls to be Bridesmaids

Popping the question isn’t just for engagements!  Asking your besties to stand by your side is a special recognition of your friendship.  Show your girls just how much they mean to you by creating something just for them.  Be unique, be creative, be you.  And let the wedding fun begin!


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Start with the stationery. These beautiful watercolor-style cards from The First Snow come with custom options for hair color and dress style, as well as different wording for maid of honor, flower girl and more. Perfectly pretty!

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Not only are these 3-D pop-up cards bright and fun, the puns complete the package. Include a cute necklace charm and a little candy for a sweet, charming way to ask your bridesmaids to join you. Instructions and DIY at Project Wedding.

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What better way to ask your bridesmaids to join you on your wedding day than with a delicate midi-ring with a tiny knot? These ones from Erica Weiner are very feminine, great for everyday wear and come in silver, rose or yellow gold.

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Provide the excuse to celebrate with you by gifting a vintage Champagne flute and mini bottle of bubbly to celebrate, all packaged in a too perfect heart-shaped box. An easy DIY project at Green Wedding Shoes. Planning a destination wedding? Swap out the box for a miniature suitcase!

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Include a pretty polish (perhaps in the wedding palette you are pondering) like these request cards from Creative with a K.

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This DIY project is a lovely way to (literally) pop the question! A whimsical balloon in a box is popped by the recipient with a super special request and a sprinkle of sparkle inside. Instructions and details on how to make this at Quiet Like Horses.

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A pink paper anemone tops this pretty box packed with momentos and adorable gifts, making the perfect bridesmaid proposal present. Tutorial and instructions on how to make this yourself at Frog Prince Paperie.

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Nothing sweeter than a little treat to pop the question, like these cupcakes in a jar. Free printable and instructional how-to at Marry This.

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DIY Style: Wishing Tree

I love creative alternatives to the standard wedding guest book, and the “Wishing Tree” could possibly be the most stylish I’ve seen yet. It is reasonably easy to assemble, can be customized to match your wedding colors and theme and serves as a lovely centerpiece on an entrance table at the wedding or reception. Here are the instructions for adding this piece of stunning decor to your wedding style.

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Step 1 Gather Branches

Although you certainly can go in your backyard and search for suitable wood to create your tree, most “Wishing Trees” are made from a special type of branch called manzanita.  Purchasing the wood will add to the cost of your project, but you are guaranteed a studier, more polished end result. You can buy these branches online for under $10 per branch. Suppliers such as Blooms & Branches offer a wide variety of colors.

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Step 2 Choose your décor

What do you want your finished tree to look like? Some options for decorating include stringing crystal beads or lights from the branches as well as spray-painting the branches to match wedding colors. You may want to consider decorating the tree and/or display table with flowers, ribbon, or tulle and pictures of the bride and groom. You can also hang small votives from the branches for a beautiful effect.

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You also need to choose your container. You will need two large hurricane glass vases or small plant containers found at local garden centers. Be creative, as long as the container is sturdy, you can think outside (or in!) the box. The bride featured here (below) used a box adorned with ribbon, and decorated with fresh flowers at the base.

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Step 3 Assemble Branches

There are a couple of different ways to do this, here is just one option. Insert floral foam in the bottom of the vases. Use foam to arrange branches, using about 4 branches per container. Fill containers with moss or glass beads to hide foam. Test branches for sturdiness, especially if you are going to be hanging anything heavier than small enclosure cards.

Step 4 Design Cards

You can use small blank business cards or order enclosure cards from a stationary store.  Some online retailers sell cards specifically designed for wishing trees. (Online retailer is Ginger Designs offers custom “wish cards”) Use a hole-punch to create a small opening at one end. String thin ribbon through the hole and tie using a simple knot.

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Step 5 Set-Up Display Table

Pull it all together by choosing a central spot for your Wishing Tree. Make sure guests will pass by the table when they arrive at your reception. Use a pretty tablecloth in coordinating colors and decorate with photos and flowers. Now your ready to show off your beautiful centerpiece Tree! Use two small trays (I like silver) to lay out cards. Make sure to provide plenty of pens. Print off instructions for guests and stand them on a small easel or enclose in a pretty picture frame.  Click here for suggested wording.

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This is a fun, creative DIY wedding project that won’t break the bank or take all your free time to complete. The best part is the small treasures left by your guests who fill out the cards. Unlike a simple signature in a guest book, these words of wisdom on love and life will be a gift that lasts forever.

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